If you want grand success in your life, then the only mantra for your success lies within you. There is no other external source remaining for you. It’s only you. It’s only you. You’re the only one responsible for your success. You’re the only one responsible for your failure.
You’re responsible for
everything you think or do in your life. You’re responsible for everything you
plan or decide in your life. Never blame anybody if you ever fail to execute
your thoughts, plans, decisions, and actions, because you’re solely responsible
for everything. You’re responsible for every outcome in your life.
If you’re successful in your
life, then you’re the only one responsible for your success.
If you fail in your life, then
you’re the only one responsible for your failure.
You will never share your
success or failure with anybody in your life.
Your life is like a small seed
of a plant; the way you sow it is the way you reap its fruits. But you have to
toil for it, both day in and day out, day and night. Only then will you get
what you want from it. Your success always depends on you. It is in your hands.
You can make it the way you want, and you can shape it the way you wish.
If you have a good amount of
money in your pocket, then it depends on you whether you spend it for a good
cause or for a bad cause. You’re responsible for either cause.
You’re like the goldsmith of
your life. You can convert your life into any form or design of jewels.
You’ve an infinite source of
talents and skills hidden within yourself. It is your responsibility to unearth
them yourself. You’ve to realize your potential. Nobody will come to you to
awaken your quiescent potentials. It is only you who will have to awaken them.
Only then can you mold and nurture your talents and skills into your grand
success.
It is always up to you what you
want in your life: success or failure; happiness or unhappiness.
Let us suppose that if a living
room is completely shut in the shadows of darkness, then it is up to you
whether you would switch on the lights and brighten your living room, or you
would keep your living room in complete darkness as before. Many people
desperately want to achieve great success in their lives, but their problem is
that they never want to switch on their lives. They like to live their lives in
darkness.
They are always waiting for
great things to happen in their lives. They are waiting for great opportunities
rather than working hard on their abilities. Waiting for great opportunities is
not a bad thing, but doing nothing is a bad thing for you. You’ll get nothing.
You’ll always remain empty-handed.
Always remember that it is only
your hard work that knocks at the doors of great opportunities.
Try to create your own
opportunities in your life with your own responsibilities.
There are many great men who
have created great histories while creating their own opportunities in their
lives, like Dhirubhai Ambani, Henry Ford, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, and many
more. They never waited for great opportunities to happen in their lives. They
have made things happen in their lives. They have created their own
opportunities.
Is there anything that happens
by itself without doing anything?
If anybody thinks so, then it
is a foolish act. He will never gain anything in his life. He will never reach
anywhere. He will only revolve like a spinning top.
But there are many people who
think like this. And they, knowingly and unknowingly, repeat it over and over
again. They never learn anything from their mistakes in their entire lives. And
they are always blaming others, living a mediocre life.
If you want to relish the
scrumptious dish today, then what will you do first in your kitchen? Obviously,
you would buy the best ingredients for your dish. Then you start preparing it
according to the requirements, such as cutting, peeling, and washing. When
everything is ready, you start cooking your dish and allow it some time to
cook. After some time, you’ll get the wafting sweet and delicious smell of your
dish all around your kitchen as well as in your living room. Finally, you’ll
relish your favorite dish with your heart's content.
Similarly, if you want to
relish the scrumptious success in your life, then everything relies on you.
You’ve got to think. You’ve got to plan. You’ve got to decide. You’ve got to
prepare. And finally, you’ve got to act. Nobody will come to help you. You’ve
got to help yourself. You’re responsible for everything.
Nobody will become a better
cook than you in your life because you know what the best ingredients for your
life are.
This life is yours, as is your
success or failure. You’re responsible for everything. Everything is on your
shoulders, whether you accept it or reject it; whether you mend it or break it.
You’ve got to think for yourself. You’ve got to plan for yourself. You’ve got
to decide for yourself. You’ve got to prepare for yourself. And you’ve got to
execute for yourself.
But first of all, you must know
your strong points and your weak points before you act on any of your
commitments. Because when you know your strengths and weaknesses, only then can
you easily execute them in the best possible manner.
You must know what is good for
you and what is bad for you; after all, you’re responsible for your own life.
One good decision may lead you to the sparkling brightness of success, while
one bad decision may lead you to the engulfing darkness of failure.
You’re like the scriptwriter of
your own film. You can write any story you like in your script. You’re
responsible for your own story. Whether your story is a hit or a flop, you’re
solely responsible. You should never blame anybody for your success or
failure.
If you get a blank piece of
paper, then it is up to you what you want to write on it. If you want to write
"success" on it, then you can write it. And if you want to write
"failure" on it, then you can write that as well. The choice is
always yours.
You’re responsible for
yourself, whatever you think; whatever you plan; whatever you decide; whatever
you prepare; and whatever you act.
Your life is like a white
paper. Whether you write something on it, or you leave it blank, or you tear
it. Whether you write success on it, or you write failure on it. Everything
depends upon you. You’ve to think for yourself. You’ve to plan for yourself.
You’ve to decide for yourself. You’ve to prepare for yourself. You’ve to act
for yourself. After all, you’re solely responsible for your own life.
