Monday, 19 January 2026

YOU ARE SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN SUCCESS!



If you want grand success in your life, then the only mantra for your success lies within you. There is no other external source remaining for you. It’s only you. It’s only you. You’re the only one responsible for your success. You’re the only one responsible for your failure.

You’re responsible for everything you think or do in your life. You’re responsible for everything you plan or decide in your life. Never blame anybody if you ever fail to execute your thoughts, plans, decisions, and actions, because you’re solely responsible for everything. You’re responsible for every outcome in your life.

 

If you’re successful in your life, then you’re the only one responsible for your success. 

If you fail in your life, then you’re the only one responsible for your failure.

You will never share your success or failure with anybody in your life.

 

Your life is like a small seed of a plant; the way you sow it is the way you reap its fruits. But you have to toil for it, both day in and day out, day and night. Only then will you get what you want from it. Your success always depends on you. It is in your hands. You can make it the way you want, and you can shape it the way you wish.

If you have a good amount of money in your pocket, then it depends on you whether you spend it for a good cause or for a bad cause. You’re responsible for either cause.

You’re like the goldsmith of your life. You can convert your life into any form or design of jewels.

You’ve an infinite source of talents and skills hidden within yourself. It is your responsibility to unearth them yourself. You’ve to realize your potential. Nobody will come to you to awaken your quiescent potentials. It is only you who will have to awaken them. Only then can you mold and nurture your talents and skills into your grand success.

It is always up to you what you want in your life: success or failure; happiness or unhappiness.

Let us suppose that if a living room is completely shut in the shadows of darkness, then it is up to you whether you would switch on the lights and brighten your living room, or you would keep your living room in complete darkness as before. Many people desperately want to achieve great success in their lives, but their problem is that they never want to switch on their lives. They like to live their lives in darkness.

They are always waiting for great things to happen in their lives. They are waiting for great opportunities rather than working hard on their abilities. Waiting for great opportunities is not a bad thing, but doing nothing is a bad thing for you. You’ll get nothing. You’ll always remain empty-handed. 

Always remember that it is only your hard work that knocks at the doors of great opportunities. 

Try to create your own opportunities in your life with your own responsibilities. 

There are many great men who have created great histories while creating their own opportunities in their lives, like Dhirubhai Ambani, Henry Ford, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, and many more. They never waited for great opportunities to happen in their lives. They have made things happen in their lives. They have created their own opportunities.

Is there anything that happens by itself without doing anything? 

If anybody thinks so, then it is a foolish act. He will never gain anything in his life. He will never reach anywhere. He will only revolve like a spinning top. 

But there are many people who think like this. And they, knowingly and unknowingly, repeat it over and over again. They never learn anything from their mistakes in their entire lives. And they are always blaming others, living a mediocre life.

If you want to relish the scrumptious dish today, then what will you do first in your kitchen? Obviously, you would buy the best ingredients for your dish. Then you start preparing it according to the requirements, such as cutting, peeling, and washing. When everything is ready, you start cooking your dish and allow it some time to cook. After some time, you’ll get the wafting sweet and delicious smell of your dish all around your kitchen as well as in your living room. Finally, you’ll relish your favorite dish with your heart's content.

Similarly, if you want to relish the scrumptious success in your life, then everything relies on you. You’ve got to think. You’ve got to plan. You’ve got to decide. You’ve got to prepare. And finally, you’ve got to act. Nobody will come to help you. You’ve got to help yourself. You’re responsible for everything.

Nobody will become a better cook than you in your life because you know what the best ingredients for your life are.

This life is yours, as is your success or failure. You’re responsible for everything. Everything is on your shoulders, whether you accept it or reject it; whether you mend it or break it. You’ve got to think for yourself. You’ve got to plan for yourself. You’ve got to decide for yourself. You’ve got to prepare for yourself. And you’ve got to execute for yourself. 

But first of all, you must know your strong points and your weak points before you act on any of your commitments. Because when you know your strengths and weaknesses, only then can you easily execute them in the best possible manner.

You must know what is good for you and what is bad for you; after all, you’re responsible for your own life. One good decision may lead you to the sparkling brightness of success, while one bad decision may lead you to the engulfing darkness of failure. 

You’re like the scriptwriter of your own film. You can write any story you like in your script. You’re responsible for your own story. Whether your story is a hit or a flop, you’re solely responsible. You should never blame anybody for your success or failure. 

If you get a blank piece of paper, then it is up to you what you want to write on it. If you want to write "success" on it, then you can write it. And if you want to write "failure" on it, then you can write that as well. The choice is always yours.

You’re responsible for yourself, whatever you think; whatever you plan; whatever you decide; whatever you prepare; and whatever you act.

Your life is like a white paper. Whether you write something on it, or you leave it blank, or you tear it. Whether you write success on it, or you write failure on it. Everything depends upon you. You’ve to think for yourself. You’ve to plan for yourself. You’ve to decide for yourself. You’ve to prepare for yourself. You’ve to act for yourself. After all, you’re solely responsible for your own life.


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YOU ARE SOLELY RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR OWN SUCCESS!

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